Will Money Make You Happy?

One of the most damaging beliefs that we often fall prey to is:  "I'll be happy when I'm rich"

Why? Because it is that very thought that is keeping you "stuck" where you are currently. There are many other variations on this belief such as:

I'll be happy when I have that new car.

I'll be happy when I have my dream home.

I'll be happy when I find my soul mate.

I'll be happy when my health is perfect.

I'll be happy when I'm at my ideal weight.

The "I'll be happy when..." belief is one of the biggest lies out there and it is constantly being perpetuated by the media, TV commercials, and all forms of marketing.

If you were happy now you would still buy stuff... just not the stuff "they" want you to buy.

It's a big lie.

How can you be happy now?

Start where you are right now...and search for the next "better feeling" thought.

A great way to do this is with a gratitude list. Sit down for a moment and write down (or do a mental checklist) of 5 things you are grateful for right now. It could be absolutely anything. The sunshine, the rain, the roof over your head, the computer you are reading this on, the last meal you ate...anything!

What ever you do...do not defer happiness. The more you do that the better you get at it.

Subsequently, the more you search for better feeling thoughts the better you get at being happy now.

Your happiness is not determined by anything outside of you.

You are not broken. Your happiness is not dependent on you getting fixed or sorted out...it is dependent upon you making a decision to search for the next best feeling thought and making that transition to being happy now.

The better you get at feeling happy, the better you get at attracting all the things into your life that you want.

Be all in favor of the things that you love that money helps you get and enjoy those things and be appreciative of the money... AND know that your happiness is not dependent on it.

Remember, the "I'll be happy when..." belief is a lie.

You can choose to be happy now...and attract all the things you want.

Anything you can do well now, you can do better with happiness.

Alan Combies uses EFT, NLP, and Hypnosis to help his clients make big changes fast. For a FREE EFT AUDIO SAMPLE visit http://efcoach.com or to contact Alan for a FREE 30 MINUTE SESSION go to http://efcoach.com/sessions  Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Alan_Combies