Attracting Love With The Law Of Attraction

Hopefully, if you are reading this, you are in awareness of the power that we all have access to, as spiritual beings, to manifest our desires and create our own destinies in this human experience. Hopefully, you are already using the law of attraction to attract abundance and all things good into your life.

Whether you’re looking for your soul mate, trying to reconcile with your lost love, or just trying to draw more love and romance in your relationship, the law of attraction is a powerful tool you can use to manifest your heart’s desires. There are many was of doing this. Some people use prayer, some meditate and others use visualization techniques to attract what they desire. Some people use repetitive positive affirmations. You might choose to use visual aids and props like candles and pictures, words or newspaper clippings to focus your attention or keep a list of characteristics and qualities you are looking for in a life partner.

There is no right or wrong method to use when practicing the law of attraction. Use whatever method works for you, what feels right. What works for some might not work for others. It doesn’t matter so much what technique you use or what items you choose. It doesn’t matter whether you use a red candle or a pink candle or which incense you choose in your meditation or what words you use in your affirmations. It’s not about the technique; it’s not about the act. It’s about the feeling you get from doing the act. The power is in the emotion, not in the act.

When you are using the law of attraction to attract love, the key is to keep your attention on the emotion you want to feel, not the person you want to experience the emotion with. Love is not something that is given to you by another person. Love is a feeling you feel in your own heart. You attract love by feeling love.

We all have certain vision of whom, how, when and where we will fall in love. We have this idea of what we want in a relationship and how we want it to happen. It’s easy to get fixated on one person, idea or vision when you experience strong emotions. Sometimes things don’t happen the way we want them to happen. If you want the law of attraction to work for you, you have to be open to all possibilities. If you’re not open to receiving love however it happens to happen, then you end up resisting the very thing that you are trying to attract – all because it’s not the way you wanted it to happen.

So the basis for the law of attraction is that is no such thing as a meaningless coincidence. Everything that happens is governed by universal laws. You create what you want in your outer life through your inner thoughts and feelings. Your thoughts are energy. Your thoughts activate a vibration within you; this vibration is EMOTION, your feelings. When you have a dominate vibration you attract energy that is a match to that vibration. What you are feeling is what you are attracting.

So, … the key is to focus on the best feeling you can access and hold on to it. Hold yourself in that vibration for as long as you can. Do it deliberately over and over. Put your attention on the emotion and allow yourself to FEEL it. Set your intention to attracting a match to what you FEEL, no matter where, when, how or with who it transpires.

It’s ok if you want to use a certain person to focus on when you do your exercises. You can use your boyfriend’s picture or your crush’s name in your affirmations. After all, “he” (or she) is the tool that allows you to tap into those emotions, the emotions that are helping you become the vibration that you are trying to attract! But will it attract HIM, you ask? Will you attract this ONE specific person? If he is a vibrational match, then yes! If he is not a vibrational match, then you don’t want to attract him! Don’t worry about the outcome, don’t obsess about the conclusion because it’s the only conclusion you have chosen to accept. You will only limit yourself and narrow your possibilities. Just focus on the feeling. Be grateful for him for allowing you to FEEL and experience and create in the present moment! Don’t focus on the future. The law of attraction is about focusing on the now. And don’t focus on HIM (or her). He/she is a means for you to feel those emotions, but your focus must be within.